Why does Life Happen to you?
It’s not by chance.
I haven’t believed these for a long time. But since I got into specific forms of self-healing sessions, I began to understand the unspoken language a lot.
From listening to the sky, speaking with the birds, smiling at strangers, and laughing through life’s most random moments, life has been blissful and wonderful.
Every day would look Fresh from a brand new perspective. Not every day repeats, isn’t it? So what is Deja Vu, then? Isn’t it what repetition of moments is called?
Okay, now that I have spoken in totally disconnected words, let me summarize what this blog is for. If you take a step back and look at life, you will see your journey. A wholly connected journey filled with disconnected actions and puzzling events.
So how does this happen?
Is it a coincidence? Is it by Chance?
Not even a bit!
Let me tell you the version I believe:
The Soul’s Journey
Every time a human is born, it's a soul that takes up a home as a human body. A Biological Form. And the soul goes through varied situations, circumstances, and environments and reacts in a way that would make the soul understand, nurture or develop in a certain way.
Let us take a person, for example. The journey he takes on this earth shapes his character. Sometimes for the best, sometimes for the worst. Not every time we keep upskilling in life. Sometimes we also let it run dumb. We down skill. But despite those little drops in the curve, there are many things you would learn on the way.
Sometimes in the form of ToDo’s and sometimes Not-ToDos. And these shape up the character arc of the person you were during this lifetime.
So the point is, when you die — the minute the soul departs from the physical body, your soul will feel a heightened emotion. Sometimes Bliss and Happiness if, in your whole life, you have been spreading happiness and joy to yourself and the people around you. And other times, Guilt, regret, and despair when you enjoyed making the life of others — a misery.
Remember, the emotions you feel there aren’t a result of what you felt while you were on earth but what you caused the most.
And so, once your soul gets elevated outside the living sphere (earth), you tend to evaluate yourself based on your growth scale. Now you are not the person you were, but the purest form of soul that existed within you. It's the most profound light found inside every person. The light that wants nothing other than attaining actualization. Without a sense of captivity or any negative emotions. Just the ambition to attain actualization.
So now, from the evaluation, the soul creates a list of circumstances that would help it level up and become a better person.
For example: If, from the soul evaluation, the soul thinks it needs to give more Love to others to level up — then in the next form of life on earth, the soul decides to have a person whom it has to take care of. Maybe a partner who’s physically disabled, a child with disabilities, or a volunteer at some organization, etc.
If a soul’s purpose is to realize from its deepest form what any certain aspect is, for example: if the soul has to understand the truest form of Satisfaction, it would put itself in a place where it has everything on earth but is still not satisfied. So now, the soul is forced to dwell deeper into the pursuit of satisfaction until it realizes what absolute satisfaction is.
So this way, before birth, our soul decides what kind of experiences we go through to improve. That’s why the wise men say things like:
What doesn’t kill you, makes you Stronger.
Whatever is happening is for our own Good.
You won’t realise the value something adds, until days pass and you get ready to harvest.
The Pain you feel today, Makes you stronger tomorrow.
And many, many more!
So, why do I tell you this now?
If you have been thinking, ‘Why me?’ or ‘Every Bad thing Happens to me’ or anything that makes you feel you are not given the life you deserve — remember:
You asked for it! Your Soul Signed up for it!
But do not feel bad about it because the soul signed up for it to make you a better person. For you to attain actualization.
So in a way, if you think deeper, you might realize that: Life is a stimulation, not in its actual sense, but from an eighth dimension. And not just that, the world happens to make humans better. 1% better every single day.
And — not just that:
Every Person you meet, every situation you are in, and every hate you receive is for a reason. It is to create a more profound sense of emotion within you. The one that will make you the person you always wanted to become.
So life, my darling, isn’t just happening. It's working its own magic on you.
Enjoy the unconnected exploratory events every single day because one day, when you turn back — everything will be a DejaVu.
Cuz sometimes, you remember how much you asked for this. Exactly this.
The Life you Live is a Prayer that is answered. Be Grateful!
Good Days are your Harvest. Bad Days are another batch of seeds sown.
So Grow through Life when you go through life.
